Hello,
Toastaphonix welcome to Windlyn!
The mountains sounds wonderful! The whole idea of moving to a less dense area sounds so appealing these days...
OMG, I had a look at your profile--you're a BAKER!!! So many questions... I hope we can ask you for more, tips, tricks and advice as time goes on, perhaps? What kind of baking do you do or like best? Do you have a specialty? Do you do any baking for fun?
Yeah, I think those of us who hate drama (I suppose almost by definition!), hate it because we're not the causes/creators of it! LOL
Perhaps I'm an old softie at heart and it sounds like you are too, but even though you know where conversations are going, you still listen to allow the person to vent/unload. I'm generally OK with that when it's an acquaintance or customer (someone I know in passing), but when that becomes a regular thing, I've found ways to become busy (read disengage) to cut it short. Otherwise for me it becomes a never-ending whirlpool/downward spiral that takes me down with it. :/
(I'm talking therapist levels of spewage.) Go with the flow... I can relate.