i've turned into something like a deliberate optimist these days. it's VERY easy to just decide things are never going to change, and it's hard to remember that the present is temporary. i'm still trying.
but, yeah, it is refreshing once in a while to count my blessings and just remember that i have things to be thankful for. it's why i like that 'three good things from today' thread! and in five years everyone will look back on 2020 and just remember how messed up it was, and we'll all be relieved to put it behind us!
let's all keep hanging in there!