by Hero » Thu May 07, 2015 10:55 am
I'm on my 2nd year and almost finishing of Computer Programming and these are the advice I can give you:
1) Be surrounded by people that sum to your life:
Like the saying goes "Tell me who you hang out with and I'll tell you who you are" Don't be that type of person in College that is basically friends with everyone, people won't take you seriously. Choose your college friendships wisely, get with people that are talented in your career even if you're not talented as them, it'll help you more than hanging out with people that don't care about the career and also you'll learn alot from them.
2) Never, never fall into peer pressure (Kinda related to 1):
If you have an exam tomorrow and you want to go hangout with a group of people in your section just to try to fit in or people go "Oh, you can study early tomorrow lets go out" stop yourself and think if its wroth it. Your career is more important than your friendships in college. Your friends won't pay for your future, only you will.
While it is, of course, possible to meet your lifelong friends in college, the nature of university friendships sometimes makes it difficult for them to be long-lasting.
I met so many people who clung to each other out of need — a need to not feel alone on a big campus with unfamiliar faces, buildings and streets. Be careful who you become friends with in college, many people might look up for you out of necessity, not because they want to be your friend.
The most meaningful connections I’ve made have been later in life, while on a journey of self-discovery and without a “need” to fulfill in the friendship circuit.
4. Graduation doesn’t guarantee a “big boy/big girl job.”
The economy is still very broken. While there have been improvements to the country’s unemployment rate, recent grads are still struggling to begin their careers.
Even graduates from years ago are severely underpaid and working jobs that don’t require a diploma.
There’s no shame in working the service industry while you get on your feet; in fact, doing so will probably teach you about humility and enhance your people skills.
5. Your morals will be tested daily.
For many, college allows for the first taste of independence and the first time living outside of parental control.
While college will provide you with plenty of opportunities to figure out who you are and what you believe, it’s important to remember your core values.
You will have to define what you believe to be good fun and what is potentially dangerous territory. You can live like there’s no tomorrow, but make sure you’re prepared for a life where tomorrow is on the horizon.
6. Mindset
If you go to college with the mindset of doing nothing, you're gonna do nothing. If you go with the mindset of studying, you're gonna study and have less time.
As long as you’re not a student working a full-time job, it’s pretty much a guarantee that the amount of free time you’ll have as an undergrad will far exceed what you’ll have postgrad. Exercise, eat well and get plenty of sleep when you need it.
As soon as you have a full-time job, you’ll realize the importance of time management, and you’ll wish for the days you wasted on Netflix binges in college.
Spend your time as you please, but remember to take care of yourself while you have the time to do so. College isn’t forever, but the decisions you make now will impact the rest of your life.
Being able to grasp the balance of fun and responsibility will bring you success, regardless of your GPA.
7. No one cares about your GPA.
If someone told me in high school that my college GPA would be nearly meaningless, I never would have believed it. Due to my belief that my GPA was my ticket to success, I bailed on nights out and stayed up until sunrise writing and revising essays.
Since studying consumed my time, I also failed to join clubs and engage in activities that would have allowed me to meet people and network, which, as aforementioned, is actually the key to post-graduate success.
Go to class, take notes, study and fulfill all of your assignments, but remember that at the end of the day, the difference between a 3.2 and a 4.0 isn’t life making or breaking. Treat yo’self.