by Lemon Cheesecake » Sat May 23, 2020 10:51 am
Your Mom or you needs to check with the delivery Post Office of your old address to see what forwards have been put in. If she has your step dad's last name now then she needs to put in an individual forward for her name. The post office can modify the original forward. This can be done for free by picking up a change of address card at the local post office of where you are now or go online to usps.com and it is $1.05 charge (don't pay more!), which doesn't always work if the credit card has a different address.
You each need to put in an individual forward if you are all going to different addresses.
If you never took on the last name of your step dad you can put in a forward for family for your last name to your brothers ( or open a Post office box and have your mail forwarded to it). That way any names with your last name will be forwarded to you.
Your step dad will probably get any health insurance mail if you are covered under his plan. When you go to the Drs give them your new address so any personal mail, like lab tests results, will go to you. I am not sure if your parents divorce, if you are still covered on his plan so you should look into getting your own plan coverage. I know of people who just remain separated so that they can still use the health insurance or other benefits.