by Uchuuko » Thu May 28, 2020 12:57 pm
I don't think the lawyer is trying to help my mom. I think that while my mom had permission to take action for my stepdad, I don't know if something has changed since. This lawyer might be contacting my mom in order to figure out what is going on with my stepdad, and nothing more. The last time my mom spoke with this particular attourney, said lawyer wouldn't even speak to her- she said that she would only speak with my stepdad. My mom now wants to get an actual attourney to get help with this situation in addition to a divource. It sucks that no one is contacting her back in a timely manner though.
There is just so many little things I didn't know about the thing between my mom and stepdad- let alone about my stepdad. I asked my mom about my stepdad's name being misspelled, and it turned out that it may refer to a possible other son my stepdad had with another woman. And then my mom has told me that my stepdad would say that he has 13 kids, like what in the world!? I'm glad I'm not biologically related to the dog. I need to get out of this situation myself.
1. I heard back in a timely manner (within 24 hours) from a lab I was interested in joining today! I am a little worried because despite my telling him that I would like to expand my horizons beyond my current research skills, he still recommended that I look into labs that used my skills. My research experience includes computational work and literature review, and I really don't want to continue doing computational work all the time. I really only got into the discipline because I needed research experience to boost my chances of getting admitted into a graduate school, and the lab I was in was new and had no students in it yet. I don't hate computational work (my favorite part of the job is making progress), and I see how good it is, but it does get boring at times. His email had a few typos in it, so I don't think he intends to be rude.
2. I still have access to the internet.
3. I am working on getting an online job from a source I have known for years.