Lemon's drop-inn

[npixelz]

Well I appreciate it! I try and see what activity is in this thread when I can, meself!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Wow, this week went by quickly.

My blood work came out better this time so hopefully that means I am better at staying hydrated.

[WingsofLove]

Hi everyone! Hope you feel better soon lemon!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Thanks Wings!

I think the holiday exhaustion has passed, now just trying to catch up on a few projects.

[WingsofLove]

Yeah I get depressed during the holidays as my parents don't do much and my bfs family does a ton of stuff for the holidays and I get a little envious. My parents are a bit narcissistic and my bfs family is very sweet and wonderful. I am blessed to have his family!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

How wonderful your BF family is so welcoming!

I like to try to emanate the goodness of people ... especially if there have been bad influences in my life.

Always thankful for the kindness in others for sure.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! But I screwed up badly today that probably cost me the relationship

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Sounds like you know you screwed up so talk to them about it & admit it.

They hopefully will forgive you & you can build a stronger relationship from being honest.

[WingsofLove]

Yeah we are talking now did apologize and hopefully it gets better and he heals

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Words can be uplifting but they can also be hurtful so it is important to try to be careful what we say & evaluate on why we say it.

A good relationship is one where you can discuss issues with your partner & come up with solutions. But it takes listening on both sides & trying to discuss things in a non threatening manner or when we are not angry.

Whether the relationship goes on to be marriage say or just staying friends it sounds like you have made a step forward. Life is a learning process.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! We did! Told him to remind me on when I am being narcissistic verbally via text or on our calls.

And we are thinking eventually marriage

Thank you for your concern and help!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

I posted in your hangout too.

It is scary to reach out, get past that feeling of vulnerability but I am happy to hear you both are evaluating the importance of your relationship & working things out.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! He and i are really close he knows some more stuff of narcissism from my parents. And his parents we are not sharing yet but they embrace and love me for me his parents

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Wings: His parents sound like wonderful caring people.

I am planning on making the most of the day & getting cleaning projects and some gardening done today.

Enjoy your day.

[WingsofLove]

They are wonderful caring people! And he might join so I am excited it is a most likely thing.