Sorry to hear about your cousin? Do they live near you? Are they in a compromised group (pre-existing conditions, over the age of 70)?
The preliminary antibody tests (that tell if you've had it covid19 already) are showing that about 1/4 of the population tested have already had it and got over it and didn't think it was bad enough to go see a doctor or didn't have any symptoms.
Speedy recovery to your cousin!
Yes, triplets are rare everywhere! Must be wonderful to have three bundles of joy, but the work load must be crazy! Twins might benefit from economy of scale a bit, but still must be a big work load. God bless all of you!
Sorry to hear you're overwhelmed, but I sometimes try to think (focus) about the positives and try to remember that "this too shall pass." All things do sooner or later. Hang in there!