npixelz I just came back from reading the announcement and i want you to know that i don't think of you any differently!! the nature of sites like these is to roleplay and be however you want (as long as you keep within site rules ofc) but there is nothing wrong with lying about your true location, your gender and your other usernames and accounts
you don't actually have to tell anyone your personal info, it's really up to you and how comfortable you are!
there's also nothing wrong with being male and making female avatars! the avis here are unisex and that's why i love them a lot. for instance, i never imagined that one of my irl friends would consider me to be non-binary but i guess by society i am? regardless of our gender we are all people, and you are a very kind and sweet person!
i'm not sure if i'm qualified to speak about your job situation right now but i'm really hoping things get better for you! perhaps it could benefit you to look at jobs you could do online? done of my friends had a difficult situation with their jobs too but they went snooping on job sites and it worked! being there for your sister and brother could help, i hope the relationship between you and them won't become too strained because from personal experience, ik how much it sucks when it does ;u;