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[Lemon Cheesecake]

Put it in your car & when you are stuck waiting somewhere pull it out and read it.

[npixelz]

The one where she's slowly becoming a cat?

[Lemon Cheesecake]

That's a book story?

[npixelz]

I think it's a movie?

[Gingerale]

I just want soup, I'm cold.

[npixelz]

What's your go to soup? Mine's pea soup, but I'm also partial to chicken noodle soup

[Bassy]

I feel like I need some soup and a book.

It’s been rough guys… um… I’m in the middle of a breakup/separation… ontop of moving… and still have other obligations. I am trying so hard to stay strong. Don’t you ever just want to not be strong for one day? It’s draining.

[galled]

Sounds like mega going on. Yeah, it's ok to be down for a minute, but know that there is an end to everything going on. Stay focused on the positive that with endings, come new beginnings! Once you're moved in, settle in and have your soup and a book to recharge and get your bearings. Hugs!

[npixelz]

Oh dear, I feel you


Sometimes it's hard to "be strong"

[Bassy]

The urge to not look at my messages if he messages me is so hard to avoid. I feel like the anxiety in my stomach is not going to go away. I hate this. The first day (cuz I work third) I slept it was the most stressful sleep ever. All I did was sleep yesterday too. Because I hate waking up with that put in my stomach. I wish it would go away. I keep rushing time but I know healing isn’t linear and it’s going to be difficult.

I resorted to anger because I’m so mad about everything. The lies and cannot get the truth through his head. He made me out to be a monster. He wants to think he wasn’t the one who ruined the relationship as well. Of course I had my own faults but I didn’t do it all by myself, you know? People are flawed. I rather sleep or stay at work ti keep my mind focused but he works the same shift and I miss talking to him. Why does it hurt so much?

I’m trying to focus on myself, I need to go to the gym to let out the stress. I may do that when I get off work. To ease the pain a bit. Tire myself out to have a nice rest for work tomorrow night. I need to put together a power playlist.

[npixelz]

Breakups are tough

But I know you're tougher

[Bassy]

Hopefully I can get a night out with my coworker and drink a few beer at a distillery district to just ease up my mind. The anxiety and loneliness is hitting hard and trying to keep that out of my body

[galled]

Blowing off a little steam is ok, but the trick is not let it cloud the end goal--the acceptance that a bad relationship is far worse than no relationship--and knowing that you're awesome enough to have the opportunity to have better relationships in the future.

As long as you know you're right/did the right thing, you can move on when you're ready. Have fun, but not too much fun!

[npixelz]

Wise words

[galled]

Thanks. Just sharing my similar experiences... been down the other road and it only leads to misery.