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[npixelz]

I am in misery, there ain't nobody who can comfort me

[galled]

Sorry to hear that, pix. But I don't believe that's true--you just haven't found the right person yet or timing is off.

They keep saying it and I believe it's true: In order to have a healthy relationship, you have to be OK by yourself first (able to carry on independently on almost every level). The longing for a relationship when you don't have that can lead you to bad ones that you can't get out of (tragic levels of misery).

I've found that the confidence afforded by this type of independence changed my mindset which in turn changed my behavior--and I'd like to think influenced how I ultimately appeared to the world. Confidence/being comfortable in your own skin so to speak (as opposed to over confidence and bravado) is attractive even on platonic levels. And the best relationships are based on friendship first. Hang in there!

Which reminds of the news I heard from a neighbor--his childhood friend just got married for the first time at the age of 72. He never really dated anyone his whole life just met his now wife 2 years ago and boom! Just goes to show you all things are possible given time!

[npixelz]

Well

Uh

I appreciate it

But

Well

I was quoting a song, lol

[galled]

[npixelz]

Lol sorry

[Bassy]

I didn’t go wild, I promise haha.

I’m finally over the big part of covid. All I have is congestion. I had covid fatigue for a whole week and couldn’t unpack or clean. I was so tired of being tired all the time. I was so happy yesterday being able to do things and get things done. I made some progress and cooked food for the first time in a month since I had energy to get the last bit of my stuff I needed from storage that had my pots and pans. And baked delicious cookies! I started making muffin style cookies because it was so much cleaner and easier to make.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

I am so sorry you were sick over the holidays! But glad you are feeling better now!

Did you make it on for any of the Novalia check in days?

I logged onto Vivianne's account & have those to donate. Got a few people who missed days so put which days you prefer on the Holiday rush thread & if any conflict I will do a lottery.

[galled]

Glad you're feeling better. Is this your first bout with the rona?

Oh, Vivianne... my heart is full remembering her. Thank for keeping her memory alive, Lemon.

[npixelz]

I had covid myself so I can commiserate
But baked goods sounds fun!

[Bassy]

Glad you're feeling better. Is this your first bout with the rona?

Oh, Vivianne... my heart is full remembering her. Thank for keeping her memory alive, Lemon.

Yes it was my first run, it was terrible

[galled]

Sorry it was tough. Glad you're better. My first wasn't too bad. 2nd was almost nothing.

[npixelz]

How long did it last, Bassy?

[Bassy]

About a week and a half.

Thankfully got better before work started back up.

I wanna keep better at checking this site but I sleep most my days away for work lmao. Plus I been reading a lot lately and been playing splatoon which the DLC expansion is available, yay.

[npixelz]

Rippo

Hooway fow da expanswon doe!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Bassy, check in when you think it is an event.