by Blue Jay » Tue Mar 17, 2015 7:06 am
Thanks Mika and we actually don't have a septic tank but the actual sewers. We just live in a house that is at least 80 years old. I know it's definitely more then 50 since my sister and I both were raised in this house. My parents lived here for a good five years at least before they had my sister who is 32 now so that is 37 years. Then other people have lived here before us for I don't know how long. Despite the fact that I have grown up in this house I come in every day and feel like it's brand new. I have know idea why I get that feeling like I never saw that chair or that mirror even though it's been there for YEARS! XD
Sadly Lemon she was only moved out of her room which was another issue that popped up. On Saturday the 8th I went to go visit just my uncle thinking that my grandmother was still in the hospital. My aunt and I went solely to talk him into moving out of that hell hole and we were stopped by a nurse. The nurse then tells us oh your grandmother is in this room now. We were floored because Nobody told us she was being discharged at all. When we asked the hospital they kept telling us we don't know and you have to talk to the doctor about what is wrong with her. I called the office the doctor works for and Nobody called me back. So yeah that sucks majorly and stuff. So we have no information at all about what was wrong. Though the nursing home called back and told us she needed an ultrasound of her kidneys.
We had this whole plan of going to the nursing home and telling my uncle that thanks to my grandmother's health she has to be moved to a different facility. She is really upset about it and wants you to move as well that way she still has you close by and my uncle who HATES the facility said NO! That's because he likes being in bed ALL DAY and I'm not exaggerating that. My uncle has only gotten out of his bed the first few months when he had physical therapy when they thought he could come home. That was 2 years ago and he refuses to get out of bed and into a wheelchair. He also has a nasty temper and I have moments that I want to slap him across the face. I'm a picky eater but he is worse way worse then me. The only thing he ever wanted to eat before he went in there was fried eggs and that was it. The nursing home is NOT allowed to give him that because of Salmonella Poisoning and all eggs must be cooked all the way through. So he refuses to eat anything other then ice cream or have Ensure shakes. The Dietitian is in a fight with him constantly trying to get him to eat something other then that. When a nurse told him that the doctor is now writing that he is not allowed to have ice cream all the time and must eat real food he took the ice cream and threw it at her. She ducked and it hit the wall. It's still on the wall and that was months ago. So he is a real pain in the butt to deal with and if my mom had a grave I would say she is turning over in it right about now.
So with him hating the place and the doctors you would think he wants to get out. Oh he does just not to a different facility but in an apartment with my grandmother so they can be left alone. So here we thought if we went with our plan he would move since my grandmother HAD to be moved according to our little white lie to him. However when we went she was already back and that took our whole plan apart. Plus we weren't notified at all and the nurse only told me because he recognized me. If he hadn't of noticed me then we would of gone in and then gone back to the hospital to see her!