by Lemon Cheesecake » Sun Mar 01, 2015 9:13 pm
Your priorities definitely change and for awhile there you can't focus on yourself, which for some people I guess could seem like babies "ruin" their life and maybe that is why some people don't have kids. But sometimes talking like that is a way of trying to convince ones self that they aren't jealous of what another has. Either way she isn't at the point where she sounds ready for kids but I hope she can be happy for those who are. I guess be ready to accept that she may not be part of your life later or if she is there may not be much depth to the friendship. I just like being around friends and I look at whether I can laugh with who I am with, regardless of what we are doing.