Lemon's drop-inn

[Lemon Cheesecake]

murmurlade : Hey Mur! Welcome back!!!

It's always good to see you and ShiroGem on! Does this mean your exams are done as well?

[npixelz]

Lot's of good food and good company it sounds like then!

Yeah, there was a lot of that. Except for when my granny got mad, or judgemental, or repetitive.

Celebrations are always nice, even if you don't always know the real reason behind the celebration :'D

That is true, mur. Btw, glad to have you back.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

old people can have dimentia and repeat themselves and they feel correcting us is there duty. At least you got some good moments in there and it was only a visit.

[murmurlade]

Lemon Cheesecake
Gosh I wish I was! Uni is just "HEY HEY EXAM SEASON" every couple months and rn I'm rushing several deadlines TT (assignment hell) how about you lem? Whatcha been up to?

[npixelz]

Yeah, there are multiple problems happening with my granny, so it's not a good time.

Oof.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

lol sorrry npixelz...I sometimes remind myself...these days will end and it will get better.

Mur: am busy working...we are going through a remodel at work and it feels like chaos...the frustration is exhausting!

[murmurlade]

Hmmm.... good luck!! I hope things get back to normal soon--!!
Change is always tough ofofodsf...... what kind of remodelling are we talking about anyway?

[npixelz]

The problem is I don't want them to end, not completely. If the problems with my granny end, it'll probably be because she dies or because she gets put in a home and we can't see her much. And then the days of my dad looking for a job might end because we move.

Sounds like no fun.

[galled]

The end of one thing can also mean the beginning of another.

Moving is a pain, but it can also be a good move so to speak. Or at least a step before the next step/move that ends up being better than you ever imagined. I typically (I suppose like most) don't like change. But sometimes change ends up being wonderful eventually when I realize it.

Keep an open mind and positive attitude and things will work out the best way possible!

[npixelz]

True.

Thanks.

I'll try.








And to add to my ever growing plate of stuff that is my life, my granny has colon cancer.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

oh no! But people survive that so don't panic and sometimes they can keep their colon. Is she old? Is this your Dad's Mom?

[npixelz]

I know. She has two months to live without treatment, but I think they're going to do the treatment which will give her two years to live. Yes, she is old. Yes, she is my dad's mom.

[galled]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

The positive side is knowing how much time you'll have to get your life in order, say goodbye and say the things you'd regret you didn't say or try and fix things is a blessing. I know it might be tough to comprehend and I don't mean to make comparisons of tragic things, but losing someone suddenly would be the worst for everyone.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

oh no! I'm so sorry npixelz! Sometimes they can take the colon out and the survival increases. But you know...we could die in a car accident tomorrow so it is always a good idea to be on good terms with people and if you have something to share don't leave it for another day.

[npixelz]

You guys are right, but it doesn't make things any less hard. Sure, I have a window of opportunity to say and do things with her before she's gone, but it's still not easy.