Makes sense. Same goes for me. Though I don't think I'll ever find someone who can put up with me enough. Someone who will like me, or rather, love me. It's just a dream, an unattainable dream. I'll never find someone who loves me. I'll never get married. I'll never have two little girls to take care of.
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The key to finding someone who will "put up with you" is to be someone that someone would be willing to "put up with". No one is perfect but we can try to perfect ourselves by being the kind of person we would like to be with. And there are no guarantees if you have children that you will be lucky enough to have 2 girls...you may have all boys...you may have one of each or you may not be able to have children at all...so the only way to get what you want is to adopt, and then shower them with love.
...I actually disagree there, but only because it's not something you can really do. Your personality, is your personality. Yes, you can better yourself on some things, but overall? You are who you are, and there's not much you can do about it. The key isn't "being someone who people can put up with" But rather finding some one who "understands." While also picking someone who's not a total jerk wad.
I know. I want to have two little girls, but, even if I get married, I can't be sure I'll have them. I'd be fine adopting them though, as long as I wasn't alone...
That's true, I suppose, but is my personality really worthy of being "understood"?
Relationships are a slippery slope, a tall mountain to climb, a high sea to wade...in other words, you aren't always going to get what you want from someone and it can take a lot of work. You are better to have a good friend with less expectations sometimes. But if you do find someone who is truly committed to you then hold on to them! They'll be willing to help you be your best while over looking some of your idiosyncrisy's too.
And we can work on our idiosycrasies, especially if they are annoying. That said, I hope I have enough good traits that over ride the not so good ones...and I appreciate those around me who love me just the way I am.
But really I just came back on here to see if Cae has popped on or not, not to add to an old topic.