Kit's Kitty Korner [BIRF 30 SPARKLE EMOJIS]

[npixelz]

Questions, questions abound
Their askers listening for the sound
Of answers to the things they've asked
As such they've set one to the task
Of replying to their queries with haste
Lest their asking have gone to waste

[Kitalpha Hart]

Lemon, being simply friends or dating someone, now that I have dated someone, I feel no difference. I see no difference
I don't experience sexual or romantic attraction, so for me, I don't even know when we went from friends to a couple. He has a rough idea of when because he experiences those forms of attraction

So why did he do it? Because for him there was something he wanted out of it that I don't provide. It was his decision, not mine. I just rolled with it

[galled]

Gosh, all these years and I didn't know this about you, Kit. On one hand it will save you from experiencing heartache. In my experience that's one of the hardest things (top two perhaps), I've ever endured (and I don't think I'll ever completely get over it).

You do experience love tho, right? Like for parents, cats, friends perhaps?

[Kitalpha Hart]

The pride flag for them is in my signature, with the aro being in heart format inside the ace, but I'm fully aware that sigs become background noise real quick

Oh yeah, platonic love is there

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Well, maybe you can stay friends then and still have fun times together enjoying one another in a platonic way.

I had people I dated because they wanted to but I didn't have the "I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you feelings" , so I broke off & some I still remained friends. But if you do marry then you should find someone you enjoy being with & who you feel your life feels better being with them then without them.

It's ok if you haven't found someone that you want to be more physical with, that can come later. You could also see if there is a hormone imbalance as well affecting your feelings. That can happen.

[Kitalpha Hart]

Oh we are still friends

Please do not bring up the hormone imbalance thing in this context again. It is a form of aphobia, used to invalidate ace folx, and some will not take it kindly

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Not sure what that means but I must have misunderstood you. My apologies. I guess you were talking about choices & I assumed you meant what can sometimes be caused by medically related issues.

Glad you are still friends as it sounded like you had some good laughs & friendly competition together.

[Kitalpha Hart]

For some, but it's obvious when it is cuz they'll have had the attraction, and event occurs, and then it's gone. In that case, yes, there's a good chance that it may be
But for those of us who are simply like that, it's not

[Kitalpha Hart]

So my lead did a double dumb
My position, because he's out before we come in, we get assigned via whiteboard. No big deal, barring the fact that I can describe him as a scatterbrain variant dumbass, which means he can and will take a 2-3 weeks to finally realize that x person isn't in the position anymore and just leave them as extra jobs. We just roll with it and wait him out
Last shift's double dumb? Permanent marker on the whiteboard. With a color so light it may as well have been invisible. I describe it as orange creamsicle
uhfortunately, I have my own dry erase markers, so I left a comment
Color 7/10
Readability -3/10
We work in a factory so I wonder if they're gonna accidentally wreck that board trying to get the marker off lol

[Grass_Kitten]

I once saw someone get permenant marker off a whiteboard by writing over it with dry erase, and erasing the dry erase took off both.

[Kitalpha Hart]

I don't know what he did, but at least he found a dry erase marker this time cuz last shift we could read the board
He didn't comment on my ratings but that doesn't surprise me

[npixelz]

Lol, funny idea with the rating

[Kitalpha Hart]

It is one of those times where I wish we had shift overlap so I could give him shit for it
Oh well

[npixelz]

Indeed

[galled]

I'm sure opportrunities for other ribbing will come about.