by galled » Sat Oct 31, 2020 1:36 pm
I have. They can either be the scariest disaster or the best thing ever or anything in between. I find the best thing is not to put too much importance to them--e.g. just think of it as two friends getting together to do something at a specified time. No strings, no demands, no expectations. When I was younger, moms would call us kids getting together to play "play dates." It's really no different. If you like someone (just as a person), why wouldn't you ask them to hang out and do something together?
Also keep in mind that the best things/worth while things in life are hard.
Never have I ever been to India.