Dude! Don't Judge!

[npixelz]

here you post embarrassing, or weird stories about yourself, (or you get someone else who knows your stories to post them, without telling who the stories are about), and you comment on the stories of others. but heres the thing, you must never judge anyone, your comments must always be polite, constructive, and filled with good will, and good intentions. whenever you post a story, please try to post a CONSTRUCTIVE comment about the last story as well. this is a feel-good thread, so no mean words! if someone posts a comment that's a little judgy, the next person must put the words: Dude! Don't Judge! at the beginning of their post, to remind the judge what this thread is for. you don't have to post a story to be allowed to comment, but we do hope you will anyways.
here's my story: over the years, i've had feelings for several different people, yet even when i've had feelings for a specific person, the feelings i've had for the others are still there, so in a way, i love more than one person, which is kinda lame and mean of me, but i can't help it. anyways, one particular person, i kind of stole their phone number. they wrote it down for someone else. they left it on the table and i took a peak and wrote it down. later, i texted them and said that they had written it down for me too. but, they hadn't. i texted them 52 times and they never responded, until finally, i gave up a couple of months ago. that is my story.
aaaand... begin!

[Kitalpha Hart]

Humans aren't meant to be monogamous, humans just force themselves into it

I HAVE A PUPPYCAT WHO LIKES TO ESCAPE THE HOUSE
Aka I can't think of anything at the moment

[npixelz]

welcome! welcome! what does monogamous mean exactly?

[Kitalpha Hart]

A monogamous relationship is two people, like a married couple. Polygamy is when there's multiple people involved, such as a harem

[Akuyi]

Once on an anime convention I saw a black and white shirt that had Bambi on it with the text "I cried when Bambis mama died". I looked at the shirt for a moment and wondered who would actually wear a shirt like that without dying of embarrassment. But a few days later I did regret not buying one for myself. xD

[npixelz]

oh, thanks, Kitalpha!
i found Bambi to be so sad.

[galled]

Hmm, this is hard... not judging, but trying to avoid appearing like one is judging. I'll share my understanding of things:

Anything based on a lie never works out.

I think it's absolutely possible to love more than one person, but I don't think it's possible to really love another unless you're OK with yourself first. It may feel like love, but I think you'll find that it isn't. On a related note to that, if you're looking for love, you usually won't find it. I think it has to do with being good with yourself first as a person. The theory perhaps is once you have that, you become attractive?

I also think that you can't really can't understand (perhaps the wrong word--appreciate isn't the right word either) love until you've had your heart broken.

Love is complex and "more than a feeling" (Boston)

No seriously, I think the term love means many things to many people and most don't get it, have it, or ever had it in their lives. I didn't get it for "the longest time". (Billy Joel)

That said, I believe love is the most powerful thing in the universe for humans!

[npixelz]

wow... that's deep.
i got both those references! whoo! have them on phone! yeah!
....*thinking more on what you said*... wow.