Its not about blushing lol. Its about who makes the best date xD. Who ever moves us the most. I mean, I can't speak for Jay since he might be moved by something completely different than myself, but yeah. It can be funny, serious, crazy, etc. Its like a first date impression and who ever makes the best impression on who they are wooing will win. We each have to pick our own wooer ourselves. Lol.