But the point of there even being OTHER sites is that they are different. If every single avatar site had the exact same features, why would you ever go to a different one? Why would any others even exist? Usually, the whining on gaia was all about how they completely destroyed their economy, not how they ran events or items. The only time I really saw whining about items was when they were overly sexual or overly violent. I don't care for rec, so I don't get on there much, but I'll take your word about the amount of whining and continue to stay away.
And absolutely! I completely understand wanting the items you're missing. I understand posting about the items you are missing. I didn't get wings for a long time and I participated every single day. Other people logged on and got them immediately. It's all chance. But participating longer would increase your odds of getting what you want just because you have more opportunities for the chance. Voicing your opinion is cool, but when it's happening constantly with the same opinion on multiple threads? That's a problem. And No. I don't want you to think this is directed at you. It's directed at everyone that complains.
I just feel like if I were the one that created this entire thing for people and all I saw were these complaints and negative comments, I wouldn't want to create anything else for those users. I would feel disrespected. I would feel like my time was completely wasted. I don't want those that worked so very hard for us to feel that way.