Gizzie and Lemon's Welcome Charity ~Pick your gift

[galled]

I try to look at the reason why I've been lied to. The motive or intent is what may allow the relationship to be salvaged.

Sometimes depression is a result of anger or hurt. Understanding the causes of the anger or injury can often reduce or eliminate the depression.

Glad you're feeling better!

[yorunaka]

Those climbing roses look nice.

And I'm totally not in this discussion but human relationships to me are pretty fragile. That's why as of late, I only really interact with family for the most part. Kinda tired of maintaining friendships with other people.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

yorunaka : We don't have a problem on Windlyn people jumping into the conversations but I suppose the topic should be carried on in another thread...
point at hand: even though you joined awhile ago you are just starting to be active so go ahead and do the walk through on the first page - and let me know which items you choose (eventually I will figure out a better system for identifying them). So, for example you can have a friend, a basket, an item for starting a new thread and when you get your posts up an item for that etc., friend 5 people and choose and item etc.

[yorunaka]

I don't mind the conversation being here (from the point of view of a newbie. sorta)
From how I see it, someone posting their problem here just means that they think the people who frequent this thread can offer them comfort and that's a good thing.

Maybe the person should either have and account that's only X days old or if not have an X number of posts? Then again, your personal discretion is fine too.

And I like the sepia climbing roses if you still have it.

On other note, what is the ticket (which you have as a reward for 100 posts) for?

[Lemon Cheesecake]

The ticket was part of the Carnivale event... we used the tickets to buy visits to the different carnivale tents which in turn gave us items (like the carousel ponies and goldfish in a bag, cotton candy etc) for visiting the tents. The fortune teller would sometimes give out the lavender wings with the butterflies. The ticket itself is a giant hand held item and I think is fun.
Did you get 100 posts now?

[yorunaka]

Oh okay. Gotcha. Thanks for that clarification. Thanks for the rose item too!

And yup. I got 100 posts now. Most of them are from word games though.

[Red]

I did confront my friend about it, but I didn't get much back. It's like she didn't care, and I ended the conversation with "Message me when you feel I'm worth your honesty" and still nothing yet lol. It's whatever now, but it opened some new doors I think.

[Lemon Cheesecake]

yorunaka : Congratulations! I'll send you your ticket

Red: if you feel the relationship is worth it and can be mended then give it time. Your friend needs to process the value of your friendship themselves and take an honest look at their own intentions.

[yorunaka]

Thanks again Cheesecake :>

Red
If your friend however doesn't show any sign of wanting to mend the relationship, I suggest just letting it be. You have to let go of people sometimes. If she knows you still value her but she opts not to be friends with you, then it's just probably time to let go since relationships are a two-way thing.

Of course, this is my perspective and I understand that it may not be right. Just wanted to say something cause I experienced letting go of someone in the past year.

[galled]

yorunaka That is very wise. All relationships require two!

[Tam I am]

I am Tam. August 28, 1973. I made my welcome thread!

I write stuff. I co-write stuff.

I love chickens.

And being startled this morning has made my brain crash, so if I'm not making sense, please forgive me.

[yorunaka]

Thank you Galled. Honestly didn't know how to respond properly to your words. Still don't. Haha. Cause I don't think I'm wise per se and I kinda feel embarrassed for just running my mouth. But thanks.

Heya Tam. Writing is cool. I respect people who can write a lot.
Don't worry about not making sense. I do think you are.

[mdom]

Oooh we have chicken pets, Tam!

[Tam I am]

Heya Tam. Writing is cool. I respect people who can write a lot.
Don't worry about not making sense. I do think you are.

I just hope I write well, too. LOL I'm not sure that I do.

Thanks!

Oooh we have chicken pets, Tam!

I saw! They're so cute.

Speaking of pets, can anyone 'splain to me the ones like this egg by Weird's feet?

[mdom]

It's gonna be a fish!
Go to your pets page: pets.php
and click it! Clickitclickclickit.